I think this saying is pretty true to a extend. I daresay most girls prefer bad boys rather than goodies-goodies, if not there won't be a saying "男人不坏，nu 人不爱" (dunno how to type the u with the two dots on top, so.. hmm.) For me i do prefer bad boys more than goodies ones, but my definition of bad boys are not those who hurl vulgarities at all times thinking it is damn cool to do so (which obviously is not, at all) and smoke, look for trouble all those. In other words, my definition of bad boys is not equal to AH BENGS. No no no no~
Should be more of those playful type, or perhaps i shall call it the more flirtatious type? heh. Sweet talks and all works only for a short period, then after that i'm sure the girl will find the guy damn irritating. I don't know why, it's just like that. So i'm kinda contradicting myself eh? hmmm.
All men are flirtatious and someone even told me that all men are bastards (a GUY told me that, mind you) haha not sure how true it is but i find it pretty funny that he is a guy but he told me that. Well well well.. for me i still think not ALL men are bastards, maybe i agree that all men are by nature more flirtatious than women. Not saying that women are all angels, but just that women commit to a relationship more easily than men, that's for sure. Yes? No?
Those timid guys who like a girl and then secretly admire that girl for damn long and not taking any actions, will eventually regret because the girl won't wait for you forever, she will be moved by another guy (most likely a more daring one) for sure. tsk tsk tsk. Being rejected ain't that hurting as compared to seeing her with another guy and you can never tell her how you felt, that she'll never know about your feelings towards her and maybe worse, she may have feelings towards you too but gave up in the end just cause you didn't take any actions.... isn't it? I think this applies to the females as well. But aiyah.. females are naturally more shy beings, so guys should be the ones who initiate. Or perhaps not already, in this year 2006?
Have all these thoughts because I just watched the 9pm drama series haha. If i'm xiaoyang I will also like tianjun, although the other guy is more handsome haha.
Go tell someone you love her/him now! =D (i'm glad he did, like 2 yrs ago =DD)
Don't wait anymore or you'll live to regret... =)
2years and still counting... =D
Love,
pinkie
